सुलभा: पुरुषा: राजन् सततं प्रियवादिन:।
अप्रियस्य तु पथ्यस्य वक्ता श्रोता च दुर्लभ:।।
“O King, men who always speak pleasing words are easy to find. But rare indeed are those who speak and listen to words that are truthful yet unpleasing.”
Know that growth is not facilitate by the pleasantries that sooth the ears. It germinates within the harsh words of constructive criticism.
Flattery is common way to be in the good books of any individuals but to bring out the good from that individual, harsh truths laced with honest feedback is a must.
Imagine the day when someone complimented you.
Smile will takeover the silent lips.
Now imagine receiving a harsh criticism.
Smile will be overshadowed with scorn.
It is simple human tendency to be at the receiving end of the compliments. This tendency stems from a natural desire to seek approval and avoid conflict.
However, it hinders the growth as it avoids addressing real issues and opportunities for development.
